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&lt;h2 class=&quot;article__body-heading__heading heading2&quot;&gt;What is a golden shower?&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;First things first: What exactly constitutes piss play? Simply put, it&amp;rsquo;s the act of urinating on your sexual partner. That can be anywhere over their body&amp;nbsp;&amp;ndash;on&amp;nbsp;their chest, over their face, in their mouth or orificies (although: see below for a note on this one). Otherwise known as urophilia, it is definitely on the&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vice.com/en/article/jgmv48/what-is-kinky-sex&quot;&gt;kinkier side of sex&lt;/a&gt;, though it isn&amp;rsquo;t&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vice.com/en/article/4xxdwm/why-people-like-getting-peed-on&quot;&gt;quite as rare as you might think&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What is Pee Fetish?&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Having a pee fetish means that urine in erotic contexts arouses you. It doesn&amp;rsquo;t mean you get turned on every time you go to the bathroom. English doctor&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.britannica.com/biography/Havelock-Ellis&quot;&gt;Havelock Ellis&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;studied early 20th-century human sexuality and was one of the first to talk about pee fetishes (including his own that he traced back to watching his mother pee).&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Ellis called it urolagnia. It&amp;rsquo;s now more commonly referred to as urophilia, watersports, or piss play. Pee fetishes can be broad or very specific. In Japan,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Omorashi&quot;&gt;Omorashi&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;is a pee fetish subculture that focuses on arousal from needing to urinate badly.&amp;nbsp;Sometimes referred to as &amp;lsquo;bladder desperation&amp;rsquo; or &amp;lsquo;piss desperation,&amp;rsquo; it typically involves enjoying the fear of wetting oneself or watching someone else wet themselves. Group pee play is another subculture &amp;ndash; hundreds of gay men attend an annual&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://wetnhot.net/&quot;&gt;piss play resort party&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;in Palm Springs.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why are people aroused by pee?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Pee fetishists have a very strong arousal to urine, while other people get off on their partner&amp;rsquo;s pleasure which happens to include pee fantasies. Some enjoy exploring erotically or using piss kink as part of dominance and submission. Pee play in mainstream porn usually depicts humiliation themes, but it can also be sensually arousing and intimate. Here are some other reasons people get turned on by pee play:&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;The warm sensation of fluid on you or someone else&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Receiving a &amp;lsquo;gift&amp;rsquo; of your partner&amp;rsquo;s body fluid in or on you&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Fantasies of human toilets, service receptacles&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Creating an erotic ritual with urine&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;The taste of urine&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Watching someone pee or being watched&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Controlling bathroom time or being controlled&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Having sex with a full bladder&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Wetting yourself or watching someone wet themselves&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Group pissing&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Wet and messy sex&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Roleplays where pee play could be part of it (e.g. puppy or piggy play)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Submission and dominance&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Humiliation or degradation&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Diaper play&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Being &amp;lsquo;marked&amp;rsquo; or &amp;lsquo;claimed&amp;rsquo; by someone&amp;rsquo;s pee&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;Taboo feelings about bathroom acts&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&quot;What might be &amp;lsquo;offensive&amp;rsquo; in smell or color to one person might intensify the experience for another.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2 class=&quot;article__body-heading__heading heading2&quot;&gt;Do: Plan&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;For those of you who are regularly&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.vice.com/en/article/k78qga/how-to-get-your-butt-ready-for-anal-sex-of-all-kinds&quot;&gt;anally penetrated&lt;/a&gt;, the need to plan will not come as a surprise. For the tops among us, planning &amp;ndash; I found out far too late into my sexual career &amp;ndash; is very important. &quot;Always do water sports somewhere with a) a drain, or b) using training pads,&quot; says full service sex worker, Tara Lacey. &quot;It&#39;ll ruin your hardwood floors if you don&#39;t &amp;ndash; a towel is not sufficient.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Yeah, don&#39;t do it in your bed,&quot; adds golden shower enthusiast Barbara. &quot;No one wants to sleep in a toilet. Unless that&#39;s your thing. In which case, stream away, pals.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;It&#39;s fine to piss on / in someone after drinking 12 or so fruity cocktails,&quot; offers Lacey, &quot;but having drank 12 or so fruity cocktails, you may be enticed to engaged in water sports in a not so ideal place, such as the stairwell of an apartment complex in Sicily. Thank goodness it was warm enough that everything dried quickly.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2 class=&quot;article__body-heading__heading heading2&quot;&gt;Do: Drink Lots of Water&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Before I started writing this, I put a shout-out on social media for advice and stories on the subject of golden showers, because I wasn&#39;t sure my one very drunken, failed attempt when I was 20 was enough to class me as an expert. In response, I was&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;inundated&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;with people telling me that you simply must drink water.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Hydration is key,&quot; sex worker Polly Tickle tells me. &quot;DO NOT let your partner piss on you if all they&#39;ve had to drink is three cups of coffee.&quot; &quot;It fucking reeks,&quot; someone else adds. Another replies to my tweet with the phrase &quot;drink water&quot; six times.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s good practice to drink water, so kill two birds with one stone and hydrate yourselves before you start pissing all over each other.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&quot;It&#39;s a bad idea after you&#39;ve drunk coffee, eaten asparagus or a lot of kale, and definitely after beetroot,&quot; says Lacey. &quot;You&#39;ll be trying to have a wet and sexy time, and without fail you will end up freaking out about why you may be pissing blood, and by the time you remember the mood is ruined and your partner is consoling you and has lost their erection.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2 class=&quot;article__body-heading__heading heading2&quot;&gt;Do: Remember, You Are What You Eat&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This one surprised me. &quot;Don&#39;t do it if you&#39;ve had artichoke or antibiotics in the last half an hour &amp;ndash; it will burn,&quot; piss-partaker Marilyn tells me.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2 class=&quot;article__body-heading__heading heading2&quot;&gt;Don&#39;t: Dick About with Science&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Our bodies are finely balanced biological organisms. It is important to remember this fact during the showering experience.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Don&#39;t piss in vaginas,&quot; says Lacey. &quot;The pH is very sensitive and you will either get BV or a yeast infection. Urine is only sterile in your bladder. As soon as it comes out of your urethra, it can no longer claim this virtue.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For those of you more into butts, you&#39;re not out of the woods. &quot;It&#39;s fine to piss in someone&amp;rsquo;s arse, and can be quite pleasurable,&quot; adds Lacey. &quot;Just bear in mind, with any type of enema, what goes in must come out.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2 class=&quot;article__body-heading__heading heading2&quot;&gt;Don&#39;t: Swallow&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I&#39;m an &quot;only when surprised&quot; kind of guy, but I am aware that swallowing is a thing people do for fun. That said, maybe best to reconsider that position for piss-play.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;If someone wants to drink the piss you stream into their mouth, it&#39;s probably fine &amp;ndash; but often better left to fantasy,&quot; says Lacey. &quot;It&#39;ll usually be hot for 30 seconds and result in the person running to the bathroom to puke.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So there you have it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2 class=&quot;article__body-heading__heading heading2&quot;&gt;Do: Communicate&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This kind of goes without saying, but you can&#39;t just whip your junk out and piss on someone without asking. Once you&#39;ve got that all important enthusiastic consent to turn someone else into your toilet, it perhaps behooves you to have a further conversation setting out rules of engagement.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Communicate before you piss,&quot; Barbara tells me. &quot;Some people will be all up for it being in their hair, for others it&#39;s a red line. Same with the mouth. Chat about it before: you don&#39;t want to try to talk halfway through and accidentally end up with a mouth full of piss.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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